Modern weddings no longer have set rules on who pays for what. Traditionally, the majority of the wedding expenses were paid by the bride's family. However in these modern times, it is far more common that the expenses are shared. Each wedding will depend on individual situations.

You should discuss this matter with both families to come to an agreement that will best suit all the parties involved. It is not uncommon for couples to pay for all or part of the wedding themselves. The following is a breakdown of traditional costs for the traditional wedding.

The Bride:

•  Groom's wedding ring
•  Gifts for the groom and bridal attendants.

The Groom:

• The bride's engagement and wedding ring.
• A wedding gift for the bride. 
• Gifts for the best man and groomsmen.
• Suit hire for himself
• Bride's & bridesmaid's bouquets, the corsages & boutonnieres.
• Celebrant & ceremony fees
• The honeymoon

The Bride's Family:

• Engagement party
• Newspaper announcement
• The Reception
• Bridal Gown & accessories
• A wedding gift for the bride and groom.
• Wedding invitations
• Ceremony & Reception flowers
• Wedding Photographer
• Wedding cake

The Groom's Family:

•  Wedding gift for the bride and groom.
•  Any general expenses they may wish to contribute.

The Attendants:

•  Wedding gift for bride and groom.
•  Hens night given by maid of honour or bridesmaids.
•  Bucks night given by best man or groomsmen.

The Bride and Groom:

•  Gifts of appreciation for parents or others who helped with your wedding.