The Right Groomsmen

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Choosing the group of men who will stand up with you on your wedding day isn't as easy as it might seem. There are many things to consider when choosing your groomsmen which we've outlined below.

THE BEST MAN

The most important groomsman is the Best Man. Your choice for a best man will probably be pretty obvious. He will most likely be your closest and most dependable friend and is the male version of the Maid of Honour. It is common for a groom to choose his brother as his Best Man.

Some typical Best Man responsibilities are:

Organise a Buck's Party for the groom

  • Rent and pay for a tuxedo and go for a fitting
  • Be prepared to stand in on many photo shoots
  • Ensure the groom gets to the church on time
  • Remember the rings and pass them to the groom at the exchange of rings during the ceremony.
  • Make the first toast to the bride and groom
  • Sign the marriage certificate
  • Pass the cheque/cash onto the celebrant/priest/minister before the ceremony
  • Dance with the Maid of Honour

GROOMSMEN

These are the men you’ve shared your past with are the best choices for your groomsmen. To affirm a new family bond, you might even want to consider asking your bride's brothers to be one of your groomsmen.

Most of your friends will not be too upset if you choose a family member over them. The hard part will be picking groomsmen from your closest friends. The decision maker may come down to which of the guys you’ve know the longest or who is more reliable.

Some typical groomsman responsibilities are:

  • Rent and pay of tuxedos and show up for fittings
  • Help plan and pay for the Buck's Night
  • Be there for rehearsals
  • Arrive before other guests at the wedding
  • Wear the correct attire
  • Greet and seat guests at the ceremony
  • Escort Mother of the Bride/Groom to her seat
  • Escort a bridesmaid down the aisle before and after the ceremony
  • Dance with a bridesmaid at the reception
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